Connections, Connections, Connections: Using Social Media to build a network



It is becoming more difficult to find a job in today’s economy. Using connections is an excellent inside track and social media sites can broaden that pool of resources. The trick is using them to your advantage. This is what I’ve discovered, there is a world of networking out there, but there is right in front of me. It’s fun to converse with friends and catch up with old high school friends online, but I can also meet new people, people in my field and who I otherwise could not have met. Oh how the internet makes a small world, even smaller.


There are bloggers and tweeters dedicated to posting the latest internship and position available from New York to Los Angeles, that have been instrumental in my search for an internship. I feel like I have an edge, and everyday new people befriend me online, one of them will have just the tip I’m looking for.

So the saying goes, “it’s not what you know it’s who you know”, well I want to know everyone. So in an effort to take my own advise, below you will find my new goals.

My Goals This Week

  • Find 10 new connections.
  • Connect with the new connections (its not enough just to have them saved as friends).
  • Send my new friends a message.
Sounds easy enough, well then you should join me, as I improve my networking skill.

Just a Quick Tip


“The Tipping Point”, by Malcom Gladwell, could have easily been titled, Socializing and Success for Dummies. The Tipping Point explains the correlation between ones personality, and the success or failure of a number of different things. Gladwell describes how different personality traits affect the market, epidemics and trends in society. "The success of any kind of social epidemic is heavily dependent on the involvement of people with a particular and rare set of social skills.” said Gladwell. He calls these traits, “The Law of Few: Connector, Mavens and Salesmen.”


When considering myself and my place in “The Law of Few”, I would love to say that I am a connector. Gladwell says, “We rely on them to give us access to opportunities and access to worlds to which we don’t belong.” Although, I have many friends from different circles, I’m still particular to my personal circle. I rarely utilize my strong ties, let along my weak ones so I know that I am not a connector. With that said, my personality most resembles tha of the maven. Gladwell describes a maven as “A person who has information on a lot of different products or prices or places.” I always have remembered the strangest facts, and love to help people, but “What sets mavens apart, though is not so much what they know, but how they pass it along.” The salesmen are equipped “with the skills to persuade us when we are unconvinced of what we are hearing.” Oh how I wouldn’t mind being the salesmen.


Before reading the Tipping Point, I never considered what exactly makes something go from regular to extraordinary, or as Gladwell refers to it, when something “Tips”. It’s the transformation that takes place when something catches on and becomes an epidemic or a sucess. To make the Georgia College & State University Athletic Auction tip, we need to enlist the help of good salesmen. In the current economy, it will take more than an empathetic giver to support ones cause. We not only need someone to convince our audiences to patronize, but we need people to donate to the auction and that will take quite a bit of convincing as well. We need to emphasize our theme “Thunder Rolls” and make sure that it “Sticks”. Gladwell refers to this as “The Stickiness Factor and The Power of Content.” With this being the 11th annual auction; we must continue to brand it, so that people will remember it and always want to come back.


Looking forward, I am going to work on my connector skills. On Twitter.com, I have some powerful friends. CEOs of companies, recruiters and Bears Oh My! Twitter has tipped in social media, but not for me personally. I haven’t used it to my advantage, I currently have friends, but I don’t talk to most of them. So I guess my personal Twitter account will tip when I begin to get replies from the people that I don’t already know. I wil make that my small attempt towards becoming a better connector.